I had such a great night last night. I hung out with one of my favorite people. The simplicity, effortlessness, lack of analyzing, and lack of trying to prove myself just made me realize how I seek out certain people’s approval or presence in my life to validate myself. I always give the advice to my friends: if you have to try, or take action, to make somebody take a greater interest in you, they aren’t worth your time because they aren’t on the same wave length as you… they aren’t the same type of great that you are and that you appreciate in life.
You are who you are, you are going to jive with the people on the level that makes you great. Just because you don’t jive with certain people, doesn’t mean you aren’t as good as them, you just don’t appreciate the same things … and it’s important to recognize that and let it go. Be grateful for your greatness, appeciate other types of greatness, and be at peace with the fact that you can’t be all things to all people. There will be select amounts of people that come into your life and truly appreciate you… you should appreciate them as opposed to wasting your time on trying to get people involved in your life that don’t naturally want to be in your life.
You may perceive similarities, but the click factor is more vital than anything else… because that shows mutual appreciation. Sometimes the click will be unrequited because half of the interaction’s logic is distorted by emotion. But when emotion changes (and it always does), logic will show that you were on different levels. It doesn’t matter the circumstance or situation, if the click is there, both people will make an effort to be in the other person’s life. It’s as simple as that.
